Thursday, August 1, 2013

Talking To My Kids About Values...and a Sweepstakes!

Movies like Disney's The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh can date me a little bit, when I say, "I grew up watching this movie."  But I'm not trying to fool anyone...I'm 35 and it's a movie I clearly remember watching with my brother when we were kids.

There is something totally timeless about the characters, the storyline, and the messages, as evidenced by my two year old's total mesmerization while we watched it the other day.


Wearing, of course, her favorite stained and tattered princess dress.
 
The animation is simple but no more so than other animated shows for children.  And the underlying messages throughout the movie, centered around the importance of friendship, make for great talking points with kids about problem solving, patience, sacrifice, overcoming differences, working together, kindness, compassion, and admitting when you're wrong.
 
 
 
I think all of these are important skills and values for kids to master and keep with them throughout life.  Figuring out how to problem solve, compromise, and overcome differences are important in childhood and in adulthood!
 
My girls are at an age where there is a lot of bickering.  "I had it first!  She's not sharing!  I want it!  She pushed me!" is pretty much the music of my days.  And I try to find the teachable moments in there and use them to help my girls problem solve with each other...but there seem to be more and more times when I just can't say the same thing again or I don't have it in me to play referee for the 17th time that day, and you know what I do?  I put them both in a room together and say, "You cannot come out of this room until you can play together and be kind."  So far no blood has been shed.
 
But the more ways I can find to talk about the skills and values I want them to embrace in a way that they can relate to, the better!  I love that The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh sets things up to say, for example, "Remember when Winnie the Pooh said Piglet could live with him after Piglet gave up his own house for Owl?  That was being such a good friend.  It's nice to try to help people when you see they're sad." 
 
This parenting thing is full of magic, happiness, and highs so high sometimes I feel like my heart will burst with joy.  I feel so lucky to have these two little girls in my life, but it is exhausting sometimes.  So it was nice to just sit down and enjoy a sweet movie together, and realizing how many great messages are embedded in the movie was an added bonus.
 

Disney is about to release The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, for the first time on Blu-ray Combo Pack and HD Digital, on August 27th.  You can read more about it HERE or go to the Facebook page HERE.  It is such a charming movie and I loved sharing the friendships, imagination, and adventure of the Hundred Acre Woods that I remember from my own childhood with my daughters. 

 

Now, to enter for a chance to win a $50 Visa Gift Card and a Winnie The Pooh Blu-ray Combo Pack, share with us the importance of friendship, imagination and adventure in your child's life...

 

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This giveaway is open to US Residents age 18 or older. Winners will be selected via random draw, and will be notified by e-mail. You have 72 hours to get back to me, otherwise a new winner will be selected.

The Official Rules are available here.

This sweepstakes runs from 8/1/2013 - 9/3/2013

Be sure to visit the Winnie The Pooh brand page on BlogHer.com where you can read other bloggers’ reviews and find more chances to win!

109 comments:

  1. We love Winnie The Pooh at our home. I feel like the animation doesn't over stimulate my children and I appreciate the values that are taught. Awesome giveway! Thanks

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  2. I think imagination and friendship are key in a young child's life. My daughter isn't quite 2 yet, but she already understands how to use her imagination in play. She's building friendships at her little gym we take her to, and even with her stuffed animals. They are her friends. They have names. She has such a sense of adventure already; exploring new things outside and around each corner in the house. It's awe-inspiring to see how quickly they learn and grow through play and using their imagination.

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  3. tweet - https://twitter.com/LuLu_Brown24/status/362974391161724930
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  4. It's important for children to have friends and have fun to be happy and sociable

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  5. https://twitter.com/ElenaIstomina/status/362980156849139712

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  7. I would love to have the opportunity to receive these Disney movies! I raised my daughter on these wonderful movies. Now I am expecting my first grandaughter in just a few weeks and I would love to be able to raise her with these movies too!! I had to retire the VHS! HaHa!

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  8. This is so cute! A lot of bickering going on on our trip right now too!

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  9. I've been doing a lot of thinking about how I will instill morals and values into my daughter and I love that there are shows that teach these core ideas along with the parent. And PS your daughter is beautiful!!

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  10. I loved Winnie the Pooh growing up! Definitely a great movie, with great underlying morals! :)

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  11. Imagination, friendships, and a sense of adventure can open up the whole world to children. I try to nurture them and allow them to follow the beat of their own drums.

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  13. We've taught our little one to make friends with his toys so that he learns valuable friendship lessons in life.

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  14. Oh, Winnie the Pooh is a favorite at our house! It is of upmost importance for my children to learn necessary skills for a happy and rewarding life. One learns a lot, good and bad, from friendships.

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  15. Imaginative play with friends prepares kids for so much in life. They learn to communicate, create and try new things.

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  17. My mom kept her original Pooh books and they were a treasured resource in our house. Love, collaboration and kindness are timeless valued. I'm not enterimg to win but I totally resonated with your thoughts today. I have so much respect for you, Jennifer. I love reading your blog.

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  18. Every kid needs a buddy. Someone to learn and play with. When I think back on my own childhood most of my memories involve my best girl friends. I know my son will have similar memories as he grows with his friends.

    onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com

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  19. My husband and I are creative, outgoing, and adventurous. We want the same for our children. I hope we set a good example and provide many opportunities for these traits to come out in our children.

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  20. friendship, imagination and adventure are important because you need to escape and explore in your mind it helps you grow and be creative and it makes life that more interesting and everything is better with a friend

    hippopurplemonkey at yahoo dot com

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  21. It’s important for kids because it helps to develop their social skills.
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  22. Imagination is important for creativity and growing through adventures, which plays into their imagination. Friendships and building relationships is a necessary skill for all ages.

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  23. https://twitter.com/susan1215/status/363849213085368321

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  24. It important because my children learn so much by playing together and with other kids, as well as by using their imaginations. This prepares them to be productive and happy adults.

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  26. They are all character building traits and therefore very important.

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  27. Friendship is important to have support in life and people to share the happy moments with and building relationships is important for careers. As for imagination? What would a grand adventure be without one? All are very important tools for a child to grow and prosper! :)

    deeg131 at gmail dot com

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  28. tweeted https://twitter.com/DeeGee13/status/363919136608366592

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  29. It prepares them for adulthood and real life experiences.
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  30. I feel that the importance of friendship, imagination and adventure in my kids lifes help them to develope socially and emotionally.
    Thanks so much.
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  31. These things are all important in my children's live, because it gives them confidence, fun and helps them develop and learn about the world.
    lazybones344 at gmail dot com

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  32. Through friendship, children learn tolerance, compassion, and social interaction. Playing together inspires imagination, and that increases thinking power. So yes, it's all very important to a child's development.

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  33. https://twitter.com/tnshadylady/status/364145361977212928

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  34. Adventure brings new experiences and learning to children.

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  35. I, too, would love to share this movie--but with my two young grandchildren. Thank you for giving someone that opportunity. I hope it is me.

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  36. Friendship, imagination and adventure in a child's life helps them try out different things as they grow. They help them learn who they want to be as an adult.

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  37. Kids need to enjoy being creative -- using their imagination and going on adventures is a perfect way! Especially if they do it with a friend.

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  38. enter me thanks

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  39. I worry about those qualities in the next generation. Too much sticking our heads in the iphone and not enough getting out and doing!

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  40. Kids need to experience all this to grow and become who they will be. It also helps with social skills, independence, and confidence.

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  41. https://twitter.com/jnbwrs/status/364744153055248384

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  42. Friendship, imagination and adventure are important at any age. My children and now my grandchildren need friends to socialize with and imagination to not be bored and a sense of adventure to not become boring!

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  43. https://twitter.com/HappyTina0115/status/364813387458297856
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  44. Adventure allows the mind to expand and for you to be able to fail and overcome

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  45. Friendship, imagination and adventure are impoart for my kids because they make life richer and happier.
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  46. -https://twitter.com/tcarolinep/status/364957489554391040

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  47. It is important to learn necessary skills for a happy and rewarding life.

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  48. encouraging imagination builds problem solving skills for the future

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  49. he is only 8 months; so far friendship means someone new to chew on! scg00387 at yahoo dot com

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  50. https://twitter.com/scg00387/status/366770731981344768 scg00387 at yahoo dot com

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  51. friendships develop relationships outside the family for a child

    tiffany lane
    mckenziesmom1@hotmail.com

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  52. These three things are what help my children to grown into emotionally healthy adults.
    Thank you.

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  53. Tweet https://twitter.com/JalapenoMama/status/367494851421433857

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  54. because the combination of the 3 of them help to form his personality. He is drawn to kids who play and imagine like himself which helps him develop strong relationships
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  55. All are important skills for a happy childhood.

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  56. Friendship, imagination and adventure in your child’s life is important because it molds them to become who they are and teaches them love and acceptance.

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  57. https://twitter.com/smilekisses/status/369391561265516545

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  58. My four year is recently learning the value of friendship and its wonderful to see his development, he has a huge imagination and we try to enhance it at every opportunity. My two year old is the one with all the sense of adventure!

    mummytotwoboys@yahoo.com

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  60. Friendship, imagination and adventure are so important in a child's life because they will use all of these things throughout their entire life!
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  61. The ability to use imagination to create an adventure with their friends molds a child into a confident and well social balanced individual.

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  62. https://twitter.com/myfolly/status/370067147029880832

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  63. tweeted: https://twitter.com/KerryBishop/status/370347695556149248
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  64. I do not have kids but friendship is very important. When I was a kid I was always with my friends, and I had a big imagination!

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  65. I think imagination is incredibly important and do whatever I can to encourage imagination through playtime.
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  66. https://twitter.com/eaglesforjack/status/372778408339447808

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  67. Friendship, Imagination and Adventure will help a child grow and want more from life.

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  68. Friendship and imagination play critical roles in making loving humans, as evidenced by my 27 year old's nickname is still Tigger, my other son Piglet and me mom-I'm Winnie.
    Diane Baum
    esldiane@gmail.com

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  69. Wonderful photo in her princess dress! Friendship is the lodestone in our lives. Creativity and a sense of adventure can spark a child to perform better in school, become more confidant, problem solve - and lead to an amazing adulthood.
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  70. Imagination helps children become creative thinkers; friendship and adventure is an essential part of life

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  71. i tweeted here:

    https://twitter.com/bellows22/status/373654095799668736

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  72. it's important because it allows them to discover who they are, which will be important when they get older. sweepmorey at gmail dot com

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  73. tweeted https://twitter.com/mommysdizzy/status/373867110117543936 sweepmorey at gmail dot com

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  74. I love when kids have adventures is takes them to places they may never see with out a imagination

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  75. https://twitter.com/purplelover04/status/373920931158061056

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  76. I love that my daughter has stayed friends with her buddies from daycare throughout the year, even when they went on to different schools. They've maintained a wonderful bond.

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  77. I think they all build character and help the kids live healthy active social lives.
    Brittney House BBrittBrat1398@yahoo.com

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  78. It helps the kids be good people as they mature.
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  79. It will help enrich his life and make him a better & more well rounded person....
    Your daughter is beautiful!

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  80. by reading out loud and spending time creating from nothing I can help my children open their mind star95011atyahoodotcom

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  81. Friendship is very improtant in any childs life, i try to get my son to build as many friendships early in life as possible to help teach him how to share and give him a sense of loyalty. Adventure and imagination are also soo so important to my young son, these charactoristics play big roles in anything a child does and wants to grow up to be, imagination allows him to pretend to be anything he wants and adventure lets him think of things he can do that help him imagine what he wants to be. Yamaharider422 at excite dot com

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  82. It builds character, creates a world of fun, and leads to a happy childhood.

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  83. Our middle daughter personifies friendship, imagination and adventure. She sees the good in almost everyone and is an artist.

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  84. https://twitter.com/ky2here1/status/374698356800385024

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  85. It is so important for kids to have an imagination. As my kids grow I see how their imagination grows too! I encourage their creativity and socializing with similar friends!

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  86. Friendship, imagination and adventure give kids the values that they need to become happy adults!

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  87. fostering friendship, imagination and adventure in a child will create an adult who is caring, giving, open-minded, and non-judgmental.

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  88. I want my daughter to find happiness and with that she will need to make many friends. Her imagination is important so she can dream big.
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  89. Friendship, imagination and adventure are important for my children because they get to develop social skills

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  90. Seeing the imagination in my three and five year old kiddos is simply amazing. Do you remember the power of imagination? "No, that dining room chair is not just a chair, Mom, it's my Corvette!" And studies have shown that a healthy imagination in children leads to better skills at coping, creativity and problem-solving as they grow up!

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  91. https://twitter.com/klp1965/status/374883703836516354

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  92. It's so important for children to learn to work and play together. It builds a base they will use the rest of their lives.

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  93. Tweet - https://twitter.com/willitara/status/374927532065161216

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  94. Friendship creates empathy for others and soothes egos. Imagination creates many forms of creativity from art to music to theater to writing etc. Adventure sparks interest in doing things other than the mundane, routine of life.
    Angie
    14earth at gmail dot com

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  95. I tweeted here: https://twitter.com/MsTofuFairy/status/374946854204473344
    Angie
    14earth at gmail dot com

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  96. Friendship, imagination and adventure are important for my children to be well rounded.

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  97. https://twitter.com/aes529/status/374957027262332928
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  98. Friendship, imagination and adventure are some of the most important aspects of my sons' lives. I know that while they are practicing these they are not only developing their social and creative skills but more importantly enjoying their childhood years (which go by way too fast)

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  99. It is important for kids to learn these skills for success in life.

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  100. Tweeted https://twitter.com/happeegirl/status/374962622677786624

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  101. https://twitter.com/slehan/status/374991400267309056

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  102. https://twitter.com/thomasmurphy40/status/375002721633329152

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  103. Winnie the Pooh stories are fantastic for kids. the stories are proponents for strong friendships
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  105. Friendship, imagination and adventure are the three best things when you’re a child. Friendship for when you’re feeling lonely. Imagination for when you’re feeling bored. Adventure for when you’re feeling a little..well, adventurous! ;)

    -Ashley Marie Morrissey
    ashummz05(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  106. It helps them become creative and kind adults.
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  107. I always try to encourage creativity - we keep a fully stocked art supply cabinet in the house. I think imagination carries over into adulthood if encouraged.

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  108. https://twitter.com/misaacmom/status/375056039197962240

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